Updated: Nov 12, 2020
What a year it has been, right? Anyone else feel like we are living in a never-ending episode of "Groundhog's Day?" I love my home and my family and my life, BUT, heading into this last quarter of the year, I was starting to feel the weight of 2020.
COVID-19 and this global pandemic has really put a halt on the things that I feel make me ME and bring me joy: fellowshipping with others, connecting socially, traveling and exploring and as a mama who has been in the trenches, at home, dealing with remote learning, a toddler and pregnancy, I was desperate for a change of scenery.
I talked with my doctors about the risk of traveling and they reminded me that, right now, every decision we make comes with a risk, but it doesn't mean we should be prisoner to our circumstance. I left that appointment, called my sister and let her know that I needed time away and we went to work on planning our first #MomsAway getaway trip.
It was in my heart to travel internationally, to head on down to Mexico, but "wisdom" told me that staying in country, as a pregnant women in a pandemic was likely a smarter choice. So we chose what would become a short flight for each of us, to head down to Southern California, but with a twist. We both intentionally chose cities in the state that we hadn't had a chance to explore, but always wanted to, we checked on their COVID-19 procedures to make sure they were in alignment with our desires, and we leaped.
I think it's so important for women to listen to their bodies, to their mind, to their spirit and to prioritize themselves. I know that at times it can feel selfish, but like the old adage goes "you cannot pour from an empty cup," and I know that if I don't take care of myself, I am no good to anyone.
This trip was the perfect reset for me and my sister both. We work really hard, pour out to those around us, and have almost 7 kids between us, so taking this time to decompress, eat in peace, go to the bathroom with no one knocking on the door, and filling up our buckets was just what the doctor ordered.
It felt amazing to venture out with my best friend, take a "break" from motherhood (thank you to the family who jumped in so that we could jump out), fill our buckets, vision and plan for the future before this little one drops in the new year and The Pearl Hotel in Point Loma, San Diego was the perfect place to do just that. Special thanks for hosting us over the weekend and treating us so well. I felt cared for in a way that I so desperately needed, but more on that later.
Poolside at The Pearl Hotel
Traveling During Covid 19
Before I jump into our amazing weekend at The Pearl Hotel, I know many of you might be wondering how travel is working in this NEW COVID season of life. I felt that same way and wasn't sure if it was both safe or wise to travel. I watched my favorite travel bloggers launch out and there was a bit of me that was a little envious.
So, the question is, is it safe to travel during COVID-19?
My answer is "yes." But with the proper precautions.
Every place I encountered: at the airport, on the plane, in restaurants, at the hotel, in the convenience stores, COVID-19 was being observed and taken seriously. For me, it didn't feel much different from being in my own local neighborhood, except the location and the company had changed. I was impressed by how safe everything was and I feel in many ways that it is much safer now to travel then it has ever been, so go on out, stretch yourself and make it happen, but remember these few things below:
Is it safe to travel by airplane during the COVID-19 pandemic?
Although I am not a doctor, every place I read to prepare for this trip said most viruses and other germs do not spread easily on flights because of how air circulates and is filtered on the airplanes, but social distancing can be difficult on crowded flights, and sitting within 6 feet of others could increase your risk of getting COVID-19. So make sure you travel on an airline that is still taking COVID-19 precautions and breathe a sigh of relief.
I flew on Alaska Airlines and they are still holding the middle seat and sitting families together as often as possible.
Amenity box at The Pearl Hotel sanitized for our safety.
What steps should I take when traveling to reduce the chance of getting and spreading COVID-19?
Obviously, traveling is risky right now, so it's important that you acknowledge that and try to stay off planes, trains, automobiles and public places if you are sick or have been around someone with or exposed to COVID-19 in the last 14 days. If you choose to travel, it's important that you acknowledge the risk of travel and take good care of yourself. Drink plenty of liquids, and take the proper precautions.
Avoid close contact by staying at least 6 feet (about 2 arms’ length) from anyone who is not from your household.
Wear a mask to keep your nose and mouth covered when in public settings.
Wash your hands often or use hand sanitizer.
Avoid touching your eyes, nose, and mouth.
Do not travel with someone who is sick.
Eat places that have options for: drive-thru, delivery, take-out, and curbside pick-up.
Follow state and local recommendations or requirements after you return from travel.
One additional thing I did when returning, was boost my vitamins and minerals and got tested for COVID-19 a few days upon returning, just for additional peace of mine. One week after my first test, I re-tested and both tests were negative and that made me feel good about making sure I was protecting myself and my family.
photo credit: Melinda Watts
The Pearl San Diego, Point Loma
Now let's get into this recap of my NEW favorite hotel.
You guys, I love a good 'ole boutique hotel and The Pearl Hotel met my expectations and more. The reason I love boutique hotels so much is because they are usually owned by a smaller hotel group or a person you can touch and feel, who is is committed to excellence, but because of that they are usually under the radar and people aren't aware of them. Because they are boutique and smaller (usually 125 rooms are fewer), they put so much more detail into everything. The attention to the details and they put so much into their aesthetic, have worked to find the perfect staff that not only believe in what is happening from day to day, but also the heart of the mission and everything is done excellently. This is not to say that bigger hotel brands don't do things well, but as a small business owner myself, I understand what it means to the little guy every time a customer chooses them AND I am so happy we chose The Pearl.
The Pearl Hotel in Point Loma, is a retro-Americana style hotel fused with the coastal vibes that San Diego offers simply by its location. It's a perfect mix of retro modern, a motel re-done with the modern aesthetics, clean, minimalistic and dreamy vibes, that every mama who needs relaxation, every blogger/instagrammer is drawn to and with 23 rooms and 7 different room types to choose from, The Pearl got ALL of their details right.
This little boutique gem in the heart of San Diego hosts a beautiful inner courtyard, which is the focal point of the whole space - it's the social point of the hotel and all of the rooms and the restaurant and bar open up into that electric space.
Their very own globally inspired American restaurant and bar, Charles & Dinorrah, affectionately named after the visionaries of the original motel, is the place to be, and with a "dive-in" movie feature, there's no question why. You can feel the buzzing energy and eating there day to day was one of my very favorite parts of the trip.
The Pearl Hotel and Charles & Dinorah, offer weekly Wednesday dinner + movie nights, paired with a 3-course meals and drinks. Although I wasn't able to have this experience, I did get a taste of it and I cannot wait to go back during the week to have that epic experience in their heated salt-water pool. You can check out the weekly schedule of movies playing here.
One of my favorite parts of the hotel were all of the modern touches. I love walking into a space, seeing it from the outside and being transformed by the world I am whisked away to once inside, and I feel like The Pearl Hotel does this so well. From the outside looking in, you may easily pass it up and overlook it, but once you get inside and experience it, you can't easily forget.
Friends, the bed above, was INCREDIBLE. It was the softest and most cushy bed I have ever slept in. Melinda and I looked forward to every evening when we could plant ourselves in it with our snacks - as we watched the final season of "Greenleaf," all 10 episodes, and Beyonce's "Homecoming" on repeat, because the hotel has Netflix, Hulu and Disney+.
It was such a nice surprise, but with 22 rooms, you can be intentional about these little decisions that are sure to put a smile on your guest faces, especially us mamas who haven't had the chance to watch any season of anything in a while.
It's also incredibly reasonable in it's price point, with rooms starting in the low $100's per night and the distance to attractions makes it ideal as a lodging option when visiting the area.
In addition to being so absolutely gorgeous and photogenic and really the perfect all-inclusive getaway, the hotel has an incredible lounge area in the lobby that is perfect for morning coffee, reading or working with a cocktail OR mocktail.
The staff is the most friendly and accommodating that I have ever experienced and I know that wasn't unique to just us, because as I was sharing our trip on social media, many of my followers who had stayed at The Pearl Hotel had raved about their own amazing experiences while staying there. It is their way and their reputation is known to those who are aware of this dynamic place.
They pay such amazing attention to detail, that every drink comes with a toothpick with A PEARL on it. (insert heart eyes emoji here).
If you are looking for a cute place for brunch, baby shower, girls weekend, bachelorette party, or a fun family vacation, look no further.
The Pearl is also known to host weddings so if modern retro is your thing, consider them - perfect wedding venue for these COVID-19 times and the special events in our lives.
Charles & Dinorah | at The Pearl Hotel
Charles & Dinorah is The Pearl Hotel's love letter to the original husband